Why we are here...

Hey I'm Bec. Here's a little bit of my story and what brought me to this work.

My own journey has been anything but linear. I grew up across two countries in working-class/poor homes where survival came before dreams, and where no one really asked, “What do you want to be?”

For decades, I lived between who I truly was and who I thought I needed to be—trying to meet expectations I never really understood.

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I've been a single parent, a full-time carer, employee, business owner and a fierce community advocate. My career in community services—spanning family supports, domestic violence, mental health and disability—was where I first felt truly valued. I worked in complex, high-pressure roles supporting people through crisis and systemic injustice. And while I thrived in my work, behind the scenes I was shrinking myself to fit, constantly battling imposter syndrome, and trying to keep everything together without even realising it.

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Eventually, it all caught up with me. Burnout and Chronic Illness forced me to stop.

In the quiet that followed, I realised I’d spent most of my life doing, doing, doing—trying to prove my worth through my work identity and self-sabotaging at the same time. I had many times attempted to live life my way but always found myself falling back to the "I shoulds" that make up our societies' expectations. When I was forced to STOP, is when the real healing and believing began. That’s when I gave myself permission to really do things my way.

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“The Queen of Reinvention”—is how I’ve been described.

Over the years, I’ve trialled and tested hobbies, modalities, philosophies, places, homes, relationships, and more than a few money-making (and money-losing) schemes. All of it has shaped my experience of life. Through it all, I’ve found a deeper sense of calm and a genuine gratefulness—for what I have, where I am, and for the opportunities still ahead.

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Now, I bring together two decades of hands-on community welfare work, planning and coordination, mentoring and lived experience. My work is grounded in insight, empathy and strategy, drawing on a mix of strength-based, trauma-informed, and human-centred approaches. I’ve created a coaching practice for people who are just like I was—capable, resilient, outwardly “fine,” but quietly questioning… What am I doing?

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I'm honest, compassionate and a guide for people who find themselves standing at a crossroads and unsure which way to turn, I’ll help you make sense of the confusion and find a direction that’s not only doable—but true to you and where you want to be.

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“If you can think it, it’s absolutely possible”